Changing Your Life 30 Days at a Time
As a perpetual work in progress, I often reflect on my life and how I might change it to live more by design. Several years ago I was on the hunt for a planner that would support me in changing habits, and I found one that I love from Commit 30. Yes, I tried others; some fell apart and others got my dizzy with all the tiny little lines.
I like the simple monthly and weekly layouts with space to write or doodle, the encouraging messages, extra pages and pocket in the back, and the focus on 30-day goals. Admittedly, right now I do not really actively use these goals pages, but when I started, I really did try out different routines to implement.



Here is a sampling of goals I set:
intentional unstructured time every day with each family member
morning & nighttime routines, plus before & after school routines
read for fun
writing letters to each of my students
completing work for an online class
consistent budgeting
decluttering the house
writing (for so many months, variations of this this was my goal)



What I like about this concept is the 30 days, which is short enough of a commitment to something new that doesn’t feel too daunting and long enough to be able to build a habit out of it. It’s also a good amount of time to allow for a few days of grace if you don’t follow through, yet still have enough time to re-focus and get back on track.
I also like reading about the journey of the owner if the company in her Substack called Goals & Beyond, which is a nice way to connect to her life and the person behind this small business.
What are things you want to improve or change, or a goal you’ve already met and are proud of? Do you have techniques that help you stay on track?
Book Report: BRAVO, ANJALI!
Written by Sheetal Sheth
Illustrated by Lucia Soto
When I first read this book, I enjoyed so many of the scenes because of the way they aptly depicted the life an emotions of a girl at home and at school. It’s easy to see how children (and adults!) can relate to the daydreaming, family dynamics, mean former-friend classmate, frustration, and triumph that Anjali experiences. I have one very specific favorite moment in this book, when an older student simply says, “Never dim your light, girl.” I pause extra here, every single time. That scene is such a powerful takeaway, especially for children who are wonderfully talented but may not quite believe it…yet. This is only one of many messages that the author Sheetal weaves into the storyline about friendship, sharing your talent, and breaking stereotypes. I also love Lucia’s expressive art and the details of setting that give such a strong sense of place on each spread. Whenever there’s a story about music—in this case the tabla, a percussion instrument from India—it takes a special talent to convey the beautiful rhythm, lyricism, and moving sounds. I’m enamored by all of the illustrations in this book.
Themes: confidence, friendship, overcoming stereotypes, love and acceptance
Discussion Ideas:
Describe the different lessons Anjali learns and how you can apply them to your life.
What emotions does Anjali feel from beginning to end of the story, and what makes her change by the end?
Mentor Text For:
author’s message
dialogue
character traits
Link to Teacher Resources: Book Activities
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Weekly Progress Report
This is a section for “stuff I did” that relates to my writing career. I believe in celebrating all wins, big and small alike.
critiqued 2 stories
reviewed several picture books
watched a webinar about using Instagram stories for marketing
watched a Behind the Book webinar about I Can Do It Even If I’m Scared
attended a class on voice
started listening to a podcast of published authors, which is very insightful about the realities of the writing industry
started a market analysis document for one of my picture books
wrote a few scenes from pivotal moments for the biography
used blackout poetry technique to reduce my ‘Wikipedia’ biography draft to essential elements
wrote the biography in first person, present tense to focus on the emotional story
attended a story time for The Mochi Makers
Sending you courage and grace in all you choose to do,
Susan
Thanks for sharing! Keep up the great work & momentum!
Love this! Your sample goals are great and have me thinking about a different approach to goal setting. Have you read, “The Power of Habit”? It’s great. 😊